Wednesday, July 22, 2009

My Wife's baby's daddy now wants to be friends.

This was our conversation after I saw his ADD REQUEST on facebook:

MY RESPONSE TO HIS ADD REQUEST:

"So now you wanna communicate... its not your problem right? I'll raise the money without you guys. congrats on the new baby by the way. really do hope you guys stick together and have a fantastic life... I just want out of the bond I have with you guys. go away."

HIS REPLY:

Today at 12:35

Thank you for the well wishes on the baby David.
No, it is my problem now...
"I just want out of the bond I have with you guys. go away." Come on David you sound like a 10 yr old. If you're so entrenched and don't want any interaction why did you hit accept on the friend request? Don't you think the best way to have us "go away" would be to move on and not even think about it. I know you think there was a grand scheme to screw you over. Do you really believe I got in contact with you so I could invite you to Shadow Machine JUST so I could steal your wife. I have plenty to say but I don't think any of it will mater and I almost understand it.
Okay having said all that, I'm fine with being OUT of your life, you don't have to talk to me, look at me...it can ALL be over.
The thing is, you can fuck with me and with (WIFE) all you want it is what it is. Trouble is now you're fucking with my Baby and I just can't have it. I'm sure one day you'll understand or perhaps you already do. When it's your child you get very protective. I didn't approach you on here so we could "communicate" rather so everyone we mutually know can see the same things or thing. I have nothing to hide and quite frankly I LOVE the video, I like the attention. It's "There's no such thing as bad publicity"
I don't know if you want to re-edit your "plea for help" YOUTUBE gem or if you'd rather just leave it and ad to your problems. I would LOVE to make a response video, you and I could go back and forth on youtube talking shit. I think it might be fun, I'm jelous quite frankly of you and jack, seriously I wish I could have a video blog.
Here's the bottom line, we can let this fester and it will inevitably get worse. I'll have to get a "Cease and Desist" order and then it's just more money to be wasted. Let me explain further, I'm not a public figure so even with black bars and not using my name, it's harassment and a law in California the "anti cyber stalking " law.
It doesn't have to be this way. Look post your video, be angry whatever you have to do and I'll do what I have to do to protect my family and my child.
Why not put it ALL behind you and then you will NEVER have to deal with me or (WIFE) EVER again, directly at least.

MY REPLY

Today at 12:46
I did not accept your request by the way.

then help me get the divorce like I requested for you two to do. Pay her half."Don't you think the best way to have us "go away" would be to move on and not even think about it."

Dude (MY WIFE) is still my Wife...there is nothing to forget. Pay her half... once I raise the money to finish this I will not need to plea for assistance from friends. I never mentioned your names and I blocked out any information that would put you at risk. Feel free to go through the proper channels to cease and desist... but I think it would just be easier for you two to man up and pay for her half of this... otherwise if you are not willing to contribute... good luck to you.

I love how you always think you can say I'm acting like I'm 10 yrs old and stuff like it such a diss. Acting like a divorce is something to forget about and also thinking you can tell the husband of your baby's mamma that he is acting like he is 10.... IS ACTING LIKE YOU ARE 10. For God's sake.

P.S.
by the way if you would like to contribute to the cause of cutting ties with your baby's mamma you can go here http://www.helpfreedavid.com/ and click on the donate button. But I'm sure you've already seen that already.
HIS REPLY

Today at 12:38
Haven't seen it yet. David please don't push me. I'm trying to work this out so we all walk away....
This can be easy or this can be a rough road just remember I'm not only fighting for myself and my "baby ma-ma" I'm fighting for my child and it will make me act on things I might normally not let infect my life.
MY REPLY

Today at 12:54
more threats man??? you did that already the month after she left me...please spare me. once I raise the money, ON MY OWN I see, we will all be able to forget about each other.

You go the link. Contribute your half and I can go file tomorrow or Friday.

HIS REPLY

It's not a threat David. It's facts and truths. If you don't believe me look it up I implore you. I have a baby I'm protecting. Who are you protecting?
How about and I'm serious not being a smartass here; I post your Video and your website, people can hear you side and who knows maybe people will be empathetic and send you money.


HIS REPLY (we had two email threads going here)

Well we can't see each other's profile or send each other messages if you didn't accept the request, so that doesn't make sense. None of that made much sense to me but okay. Look you can feel any way you want and you can feel sorry for yourself and seek out empathy and pitty and money from your friends but you'll find NONE of the above from me. I tried to "man up" talk to you like a human but you seem to be stuck. You did not mention either of our names but you did use pictures you copied off the internet(which if you read the fine print says "unauthorized" so unless you took them or a friend of your took them black bars or not you can't use the photos. Feel free to edit them out and rant away. Please David I'm not out to battle you but if you look carefully or read it online by the letter of the law your a "stalker" and a "cyber bully" not my words CA Law's. Look I'll spend my money on having my lawyer file paper work. (WIFE) is already filing with the county investigators office(which I think is a little much) See the problem is people who make angry video's much like what you've posted sometimes end up loosing it and doing crazy things. I AM NOT saying that's you but you know YOUR WIFE as you put it, she takes everything to the enth degree. So if she follows through, you will have a record with LA county as a stalker. Then filled legal paper work as a "Cyber Stalker" don't do it to yourself. Keep the site do what you have to do. Look man, I'm not trying to fight you on this, you don't think this is good for me(the non divorce) do you? I will again talk to YOUR WIFE. As far as you and me, I'm not trying oppose you. In fact now that I think about it I have more reason to have the divorce over and done just as much or more. This is already out of hand...


MY REPLY

Today at 13:26
A stalker would be trying to contact her... you are the one contacting me. I'm trying to get a divorce... not stalk anyone... why is this easier for you guys to threaten me and go to a lawyer and file with the state blah blah blah...but not file for the divorce... got the papers all drawn up...

Please tell me that much.

Also I don't feel sorry for myself. I'm just using ever means necessary to get this done.

If I receive a cease and desist.. then I will be obligated to edit my video sure... but I think that is going too far. Do what you want... I'm just trying to raise your guy's half.

There is no need to talk to me at all. I gave you the link. I will raise the money (which I have none to do so yet) and I will file... I am asking you now. DO NOT reply to this letter. Do not email me, call me, text and contact me. If you do so you will be more in the profile of stalking. DO NOT CONTACT ME ANYMORE. Goodbye.


HIS REPLY

Today at 13:31
MY REPLY

Today at 13:33
DO NOT CONTACT ME


4 comments:

  1. I am so embarrassed for you. Please, stop. The internet is already full of enough self-inflicted humiliation. And if you won't stop, please observe the conventions of spelling and grammar in the future.

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  2. Wow, man, you got owned by that other guy, that baby-daddy.

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  3. It's interesting that he sent you that sight, because according to the Privacy rights site and the stalker laws... ou are not doing anything, and he is the one who is actually cyber stalking you with threats. Yeah, he might be able to get a cease and desist against the photos, but It'll take a good lawyer considering there is no proof who is in the photos and he would have to produce some sort of copy stating that he owns the rights to those photos anyway. But let him do what he feels like he needs to do. You haven't done anything wrong with the website or the video... I'd help you out if I could, but I'm strapped at the present time. This is the real Taylor by the way...

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  4. If one sends a message to another facebook user that is not a friend, and that message is accepted or opened, the profiles are visible to each other, has nothing to do with accepting or not accepting friend requests.

    I do not open messages from people who are not my friends for this reason, profiles are other information is visible for 30 days I believe.

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